Archive for February, 2008

on the run….

“Hi am sorry 2 say this-u have 2 stop callin’ or texting- ma boyfriend has been tracking ma calls,had a big fight yesterday”

Thats a text message i got very early in the morning today,and the first thing on my mind is,girls have got  issues/ok some of them really,you wanted me,and am sure you knew you had a man,and i was okay with it,coz to me it was all about sex.

Anyway thats a girl i met in the bar and she was fun to be with,good bar mate and sex mate at that…..but hey,what the hell,she says she wants to leave,who am i to say NO.

I hit on reply,and send her saying i will call or text just to say wats up,nothing harmful.

Their is a sudden reply;

“pliz stop it u r makin things hard 4 me each text u send,we read it 2gether u knw i lv ma man,i where with u coz i thout he wz cheatin,understand”

So now i have to understand,will miss her crazy ‘dirty’ talk,it should have lasted for a while.

 

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You never know,when….

You can never know what will be next in life,or what am saying what the next minutes or hours are going to bring you.

This i always know and have known,last night,yes,never knew i would end up in a foreign-ners bed.We have flirted bit here and their,stays on the same flat building like a buddy of mine,and so am their to drop of my mate,and for fun’s sake,i tell her i want to spend a night.

Expected a NO,like she has always said to me,but this time am up for a surprise when she begs me to spend a night in her visitors room,am all willing,coz the drive back to my place is another 20minutes which i dont want to do at that late hour of the night.

We talk for hours,she is married,stays with her boy,a year or two,husband is away in foreign lands,pure Muslim’s,with names that make Bush sweat,she is here on transit to one of those foreign capitals of Europe,a few Visa problems here and their.

The conversation takes quiet some hours,am shown my room,and while we are talking,i do now the invite,and yes,another YES,try to kiss,am pushed away,but hours into the cuddle that am providing,it all goes down,anyway she was a bit scared,guilty,feeling she is betraying someone somewhere out their,but hey when loneliness sets in,what do you do?

My services,though not for sale,are always fully available.

Will be seeing her again,talked about boundaries,in the whole thing,yes their is something,hullo,who does not want to bang Arabic pussy,and best of all,formerly air hosting on one of those planes i can not mention the name(lol).

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sex is missed!

Its been long,not because they are not available,but its been a while that i have really had some sex…..yeah,and am not believing it to.

Am not sure about the reason,but it seems that,i have some fears that are over ridding my needs.Sex is present,i can get,lots of girls,not so many but at-least i have numbers that can be dialed,and i will be presented with(not whores).

The waitress,is on my ‘case’,she is bombarding me with text messages,she wants to see me,and am going to “see” her,come rain-come-sunshine,the last time i was with her,she hard-lined on her ‘goodies’,and i did not push.This time i told her,if she was to come to my place.One she must be in a skirt.Two,she must be knicker-less,she did not answer in the affirmative,she skirted around it,but i made myself clear,and Three,i told her i needed a blow job from her badly,and that was the first thing she was to do when she arrived at my humble abode.

Will wait and see what comes out of it.

The girl from the rock night bar,is seeming elusive,but am not chasing,and she knows that,told her whenever she is ready to part with with the Gold between her legs,am just a call away,but she shouldn’t wait long.

A friend of mine who is dating a university lecturer(actually she just been at my place)don’t get it wrong,she wanted to have supper with me,seems a nice girl,though too stressful and with a lot of issues,not sure if my homie will handle,seems she has been around,i mean she has lots of ’stories’,given the chance i would ‘bend’ her,but i can not definitely work on it,seems my friend gave her a good one over the weekend,coz that was their first time,and she traveled for four hours to go and get some sex from him(his an out of towner now),am happy for him,though he feels he can not handle her emotions,i still wonder how she handles students,oh she is also doing her second masters degree,damn!seems book bright.

Valentines,was uneventfully,did not really hang or get ’some’,was just with this single mother from next door Kenya,who’s a single mother,she refused to let me into her bed,saying we could not share,coz her son was awake,and she would have to use the guest room,cut my looses and headed home,needs time of which i don’t have.

Hasta manana

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strangers on Im

Me: 26/m/africa
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Me: am alright

Me: u
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Me: sure
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Me: sorry
Me: cant do that
Me: right now
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Me: someother time
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Me: cant
Me: next time

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Nairobi’s downtown hotel

In my search for a good life,and basically my what should be my destiny,iv tried to travel to a few areas.

A year or two back found me on a bus,towards the Kenyan capital of Nairobi,i reached kisumu,now a nearly burnt out town,due to politics,and onto the bus and to the sit near me sits a lady,a mother at that,as in she looked one.

Maybe she was in her forty’s or even fifty’s,i could not tell then,she sat,greeted me in Swahili,and i made it clear that i was not good at the lingua,thou i could hear her so well,the street kids who where begging from us,who where inside the bus,started talking to her(i don’t remember what).

We continued on our way to the capital(Nairobi),we talked a bit,cheap talk.She asked for my destination and was like i was not sure,and i only wanted to get a cheap Hotel for the night,then see what Kenya had to offer.

She said she knew this hotel and that’s where she was going to spend a night,and asked if she could be of help,by telephoning and booking me a room,said yes and Nairobi we reached,at around 1900hrs.

Their are no single rooms,their is only a twin double room,and she suggests that we share,yes we share,am scared!!this is a foreign place/land,i don’t know about her or the hotel.

The man/boy that i am,allows,and the room we enter,talk more,shower..and go to the hotel bar,drink a few of those Tusker beers.

In the room,am on my bed and she on hers,and she is telling me about the hotel accros the road/opposite,and the whores that be in it,coz we could hear them make noise/shout out obscenities,and was telling me all that was going on.

We did talk about life,Kenya,its politics and its tribal issues.

And the conversation deviated to relationships and sex,as it would anyway when you put girl and boy in the same room,unless they are blood relatives.

I may not remember how or what happened,and how it happened,but i found myself in her bed,and we where snogging or is it exchanging lots of saliva,i did not have protection,she told me,the receptionist sold.I jumped out of the room,bought a packet and it all went down.It was just sex.

We did it again,and i had to leave and continue with my journeys to destiny.

It was one of those ‘things’,that come to you unexpectedly,but you risk and take them on.

Unfortunately she died some months later,after we had met,she got a stroke and did not live thru it,we had planned to meet again and mayb go to masai mara.

It never was.

Eunice(RIP).

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whats life really….?

Iv lived,yes alive for the last 26 years,and am still questioning that,whats life.

On a few occasions iv been told,life is what you make it.

and how do u make it,and so another person will say live,love it.

I prefer to say,me being here on this blog is all what is life,my life.

Me being in that bar,chilling out on a cold beer is what constitutes what my life is all about.

Me dating,and hanging out with various un-imaginable people is what its all about.

But can i ever stop to ask myself all those Questions,about what life is all about.

A Religious person will give you their own perspective about the whole life thing.

A lifist will also give u theirs.

its all confusing.

Am sorry but this is a block

so am out.

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Friday-(lousy food,warm beer)-pregnant woman

Sometimes i just do wonder,if at this level,am wasting away or,its just the love for fun that takes me/makes me look for places that are going to make have a great time.

Or is it just the need to have fun and LIVE life,as it is and how it should be lived,not just in consolation and any other crap that might be coming my way.

Friday is this bar,just outside the city,that has a catch phrase”lousy food,warm beer”,the really do serve Mexican dishes,but am not a fun of foreign food,apart from Chinese,but that’s becoz Gf,is a fun and i just have to go along(i just like the veggie rice,and sizzling chicken or fish).Anyway at this place,we are on beer,and if you have never hangout with a pregnant woman,sorry i did!crazy stuff/dancing from a 7-8 months pregnant woman,doing what we call a near-paka chini/thats dancing while even going down…woh.

And their was fat-mama,a very tiny chick,from the coast of East Africa,who prefers being called that,fat-ma,single mother,worth a lay,though might come with lots of consequences,not ready to look after another man kid(lol),anyway not to pursue but will see how it all flows,was supposed to hang with her last night,but……..Woman does not drink,so her company though good,as in she heats up and does that crazy Arabian belly dance,she needs some intoxication if things are meant to be a little smoother.

Yesterday Saturday,was basically a dull day till evening when this guys iv hang out with,sends a text,asking if am interested in a beer,who says no,jump into my ride and a few minutes later,am having the beer,the bar we are at,is a bit boring,lots of guys are watching the African nations cup,am not into soccer,so its all getting to my nerves,i receive a text about a “drink up”,in a place a bit out of town,and thus we ride over their,unfortunately the strippers we where expecting did not turn up,am told they where booked a bit late,so they could not turn up.

We just indulge in lots of liquor,no beer,only one girl in the presence of 6 boys,kind of crazy,lots of dirty dancing with her,but nothing more,one of the boys has designs for her…if you know what am talking about..

Sunday,today was just spend reading papers,sent out a text to this chick called Pam,have talked about her before,she is up to my suggestion of dropping in,we do alot of making out and kissing and the use of fingers and hands,seems she is proving a hard nut to crack,she wants me to go for an HIV test before she can open up her legs for me,though she is up for the condom,she says today is a bit out of the Question,she says “am feeling guilty that am going to cheat on my man”,i need time,to think before i do it,woh,woman its just sex..don’t over rate it,anyway like a player i play along,tell her its alright,she should take her time,and when the time comes and she wants to give in to me,she is always welcome.

She left me really horny,but hey that should not be my weakness.

And here i am telling the story,wish i could become a better story teller,their is a lot to come.

lol

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fuckin’ thieves

Things happen to me,and am not sure why,they should….its so stressing,when i wake in the morning,knowing very well that the day is just like any other,only to find out that,my car was broken into,during the night,maybe it was towards day break.

Now who does that to a broke guy?the fact that the car is not even comprehensively insured makes the matters worse,why break my car window,and not even steal anything,just looks like a work of a hater,alright this has happened before,in another car,but same place,though a year back,and my security and for the car was tightened(lol).

I mean i did put in an alarm,in the car,but whatever happened,i will never know,neighbours say,the heard the alarm go off,but how come i did not hear anything,or was it the after effects of the night,how am i to hate beer,No,i can not put the blame on beer.Coz am sure even if i was alert,am not sure i would have gotten out to defend what belongs to me.What if they are armed,or many thugs,how can i defend myself from such lumpens.

Fuck those thieves/people who broke into my car.Fuck that wasted spoof,fuck their brains.

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I have this one liner,for girls that i usually have,i always tell them “do not fall in love with me”,unfortunately last night,yes(read the story before this one),this chick Pam,that i was hanging with,shot back,when i told her that.

She said “No,i will not fall in love with you……..I want you to fall in love with me”,in my mind i was like woh,that was a back hand on my cheeks,she is going to make me fall in love with her,she doesn’t even care whether am seeing someone and she is also seeing some guy.She says its a matter of time and me and her are dating….I want to run,run fat,but how can when i haven’t laid her,that may not be possible for me,i want her for sex,and am sure she is good,and i can learn one or two things from her.

Hasta manana……… 

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crazy night…

Like i have said before,the bar is one place am at peace with,just enjoy being in that environment,and thats cool with me,anyway that includes the set of people i ride with.

Thursday was another Rock night theme at this other bar,Steak out is the bar,here in kampala,for Rock night on a thursday night,and thats where iv been rocking from.

Chilling out with the usual suspects,the people who drink beer,like the end of the world is abouit to appear.

Am tempeted to invite this one girl,i met at the same bar,a week back,its a long soty how i met her,but she was with a man,and must have been bored,and so my skills came in handy,and phone numbers where exchanged,and so this thursaday she joins ME,off my invitation.

She is one of those fun girls i have been with in a long time,so flirty,so into her company,and best of all soo touchy,and yes sexy.

She is still eluding me,she is saying NO,and am not in the mood of chasing for “it”,so am laid back,waiting for the offer to be brought on a silver platter.

Truth be told,she is one of those girls you hang with and your  not bored,she keeps you fully entertained.

Oh,i did not tell you the name of the girl,she goes by “p”,thats for now,imagine the P’s that are available,and thats her.

I had to drop the chick home,again,yes,i did not even hardline on her goods…hahahaah.coz that would be ME,in another world,the one i used to be in..hey wats happening to me now.

cheers mate.

am out of here ,these are my times and days/nights.

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